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Posted:Jul 12, 2018 6:42 am
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Worthless as tits on a boar hog!
Posted:Aug 20, 2018 3:03 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2018 7:57 am

That's the perfect description of IM on this site!

I don't know why it is even there, I have had enough sessions to know that it drops sessions for no reason and doesn't deliver messages when it says it has.

It is a perfect waste of time and a good excuse for people to go offsite for instant communication which is something the site doesn't want so you think that would motivate them to fix it but it was the same way in 2006 so i wouldn't hold my breath!
Saturday night with 20-somethings......
Posted:Aug 19, 2018 12:42 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 12:43 am

I am on this weekend and came in at 8PM Sat night. The easy job was completed by 10PM and I decided to swing by what passes for the trendy party area in Conservative Indy called Broadripple. (where Steven Tyler went to high-school)

It was the first time I've taken a detailed look there for a couple years and there were quite a few noted changes. Old rundown music venues have either been bulldozed or re-incarnated as multipurpose entertainment complexes. The gentrification of both commercial and residential properties is in full swing with lots of capital being dumped in the area. What was once a gathering place for the more fringe elements has pretty much become the playground of upwardly mobile young adults.

First bar i hit was a sports pub type with the standard wall mounted TV's showing various sporting events. The target audience didn't lend itself to couples but the tables of jocks and sorority girls had thing in common. A healthy mix of ethnicity and race. There was a real projection of equality with strong personalities and leadership traits evident regardless of race. This is a good thing but I also get a strong sense of clique and can't help but wonder if social status will not become the new face of prejudice down the road.

Second bar was a micro brew bistro where the crowd tended to be more in the 30's but the color blind trend was still strong with couples of about every mix imaginable on display. Since wife #1 was Japanese and I dated a black woman for a few months in the early 90's I tend to be maybe a little more sensitive to reading mixed couples in social sitiuations. I suppose that a fair of these mixed relationships will fail for various reasons but I get the strong impression that race will not be the wedge issue in most of them.

Time marches on and the perception fed to us through the filter of mass media seldom matches the reality. For those young ones who are climbing the ladder what rung they are on is more important than what color they are
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Looking at blogland
Posted:Aug 18, 2018 6:01 am
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2018 9:40 am
I see blogs that are all light hearted and blogs that are filled with nekkid pictures. I see blogs that are very personal and blogs that are home for pissing contests on different subjects. Some blogs are filled with interesting observations and some filled with stories of past experiences. even with the template feature you can see that some put an incredible amount of work and time into their posts!

Regardless of the type of blog I think they all should be respected for the courage and commitment the blogger displays in their effort to bring something to the site.
I could lie
Posted:Aug 17, 2018 4:17 pm
Last Updated:Aug 18, 2018 5:51 pm

I could lie and tell you I'm single.
I could lie and tell you I'm 10yrs younger than I am.
I could lie and post old pictures of myself.

But that would get me women that would be a waste of time.
That would be fulfilling the destiny that losers either consciously or sub consciously want re affirmed. i.e they are not worth a truthful relationship.

I am looking for 1 in a thousand or ten thousand or million. A woman attached or single strong enough to have a relationship with a finite lifetime. A relationship that guarantees that she will not be the one and only but nevertheless be physically and emotionally loved and respected.

A woman who has her own life and doesn't need mine but can be richer for what I can give.

A woman who has open eyes, who leaves the baggage of the past in the past and sees each day as a new beginning, a new chance to live learn and love.

You judgments don't hurt me, you see I know they are a reflection of you not a knowing of me.

I realize that in this life most often wanting is better than having and I have all that I really need but I want more.

Can you make having better than wanting?
Heaven on earth!
Posted:Aug 16, 2018 10:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2018 3:23 pm
There is different answers of course depending on your criteria. Here I going to put forth heaven on earth in the eyes of a man between 18-50. It was the Philippines in the pre HIV days! Tropical climate, beautiful beaches and you could live like a king for $400 a month! I know some marines that were on temporary duty there that could have been subjects of a study on unrestrained male sexual behavior. One guy in our unit was with a different woman every night for 6 weeks and probably lived on less than a 1,000 calories a day because he lost nearly 50lbs and when you consider that he was a Marine and in no way obese when he started it's safe to say another 6 weeks would have killed him!

I not wired that way and had a serious Japanese girlfriend back on Honshu and with an eye toward quality over quantity in about a week I found an off the beaten path "resort" that had everything I wanted. Rooms for about $5 a night within walking distance of 3 bungalow beach bars where a girl (probably not enough to be legal) could be rented for less than $10 a night. I was only 19 so I didn't feel too guilty about them possibly being 16 or 17. We used to have what is now certainly a politically incorrect joke that the Philippines best natural resource was vaginal muscle control. Political incorrectness aside it was true those women could milk you like a cow! After you picked out a girl to your liking you could get long-term discounts! Fresh pineapple or orange juice by the quart delivered to your room in the morning for a quarter and I remember more than once opening my eyes in the morning and my first sight being a beautiful young thing with her lips wrapped around my cock because she wanted a bonus before leaving the room.

Yes it's sexist and objectifies women but this is mans heaven on earth get over it!

Of course this life is not for me (Nor most men I would hope) for anything beyond the length of a vacation but I have to wonder if one of these in most mens lives wouldn't result in a better adjusted guy down the road....

Ah, the ladies up north!
Posted:Aug 15, 2018 8:54 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2018 1:08 pm

I don't know if it's site-wide or just a trick of an algorithm on the site but I see a lot of activity by some very choice ladies who reside north of me, of course that places most of them in Canada but not all.

My history with these women of the north is one of unexplored possibilities.

Starting around the age of twelve when my father was one of the guest speakers at a big AA convention in Toronto. We stayed up there for about a week and our host family had a daughter that was a few years older than I. That time is rather hazy, maybe my mind has made it so to deal the trauma of it. It was a good trauma though, I seem to remember that she saw me as some sort of exotic animal that had to be kept interested lest it get away. I know she did take her sweater off and dance for me in their basement in her bra and I was too naive to ask her to take it off or join in.

Fast forward about 12 years and I'm on terminal leave in the middle of a 40 day 10,000+ mile motorcycle tour of the US & Canada before starting my civilian life job search. I went from S. cal up to B.C. then zizagged through Washington, Idaho, Montana and the Dakotas After which I went up in to Canada north of the great lakes and down to Montreal where at a roadside restaurant a waitress who spoke no English ( or claimed not to) started talking to me and one of the truckers started translating. "Have you ever made love to a French woman" she asked. I told her no but I had Japanese, Korean and Filipino under my belt to go along with american women. This did not impress her at all and she said "Until you have been in the arms of a french woman you have not made love" Seeing as how I was alone and everyone in the restaurant was privy to this conversation discretion got the better part of valor and I just moved on down the road.

Fast forward another dozen years and I'm working for a small German company that designs precision measurement systems for manufacturing and in Fergus Ontario there was a plant that had some of our equipment that was VERY old and needed much attention to keep it in spec so once very two months I would drive up there and stay at a bed and breakfast in a historic old home on the main street in town. At this BB there was a bar in the basement where most of the local business owners would stop by for a drink and this became my home away from home during my stays. The bartender was a Scottish lass with what was to me that classic Scott beauty, high cheekbones and strong narrow chin. The kind of face that would age very well and was extremely expressive. We talked a lot and one thing led to another until one night when she was complaining about stress and muscle tightness I convinced her to let me give her a massage. She came around and sat in a chair in front of me with her back towards me and I started in on her shoulders. Disclaimer I have never been trained in massage but I am sensitive to feedback the body gives me so soon I found the pressure and intensity that loosened the knots. After while she leaned back against me and must have felt my hardon in her back because she stealthily reached back behind herself and started rubbing my cock through my pants. Unfortunately she came to her senses and stood-up saying "I work here" I looked at her and half in jest said " should I hope you quit" She laughed and said "if I do you'll find out" As luck would have it they closed the plant before she quit.

So there are my three tales of unrealized expectations with northern women. It has been about 24 years since my Fergus days so I'm way overdue but no pressure ladies! LOL
Don't thank me for my service!
Posted:Aug 14, 2018 3:26 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2018 8:55 am

I completed 7 years in the USMC, never missing a promotion period and getting one Meritorious promotion for re-upping. My final rank was E6 and I was NCOIC of a tank battalion radio Maint. shop with 24 techs. I didn't do it for love of country or anything like that I did it because there were shit prospects for a career back home and I wasn't interested in going to college. I attended school for over a year during that 7yrs. 8hrs a day 5 days a week of hard core technical school that would blow any 4yr college BSEE degree out of the water.

I went in back in the days when you could not wear your uniform off base for fear of run-ins with the lingering resentment of the anti-Vietnam war people. Being in the military meant you wee a second class citizen to many.

I was Ok with that, there were some class a people in the military a few of whom I am still in touch with 30 years later but there was also a lot of white trash and un educated urban and rural blacks, Hispanics etc. The military community was no better or no worse than America in general.

Fast forward 30yrs and the death grip knee-jerk reaction to make anything and everything military sacrosanct and those who serve as walk on water saviors of western civilization.

I think we are all being played on this one. Our lousy foreign policies disenfranchise people and when there is push back we send over the troops and kill them. Maybe part of this rise to the status of demi-gods on our military members is to assuage our guilt at what we ask them to do but I am confident that it is a conscious tactic employed by the ever present industrial military complex to keep money flowing to the war machine.

With all this in mind I can't help but cringe when somebody thanks me for my military service ( something that ended a quarter century ago) because I did it for me not for them....
A wink and a kiss, the most intimate of actions?
Posted:Aug 13, 2018 9:27 am
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2018 2:38 pm

GratefulGirl69's post Pandora39s Winky Vid amp the 40 Meet Got me to thinking about intimate actions.

In her case it was a wink and the somewhat surprising thought that a wink is considered more intimate than other actions by some. This is something that I understand because to my mind a wink is open ended making it more personal. It can mean a joke, the acknowledgement of a secret, or a promise depending on who the receiver is.

This however did get my overactive mind thinking about other physical actions that can be considered as being the highest level of intimacy without being carnal. The mouth to mouth kiss comes immediately to mind. I have read and heard from many different sources that many prostitutes do not kiss their Johns, it is an intimacy barrier they prefer not to cross. I was the third for a married couple once that had mouth to mouth kissing of the wife listed as out of bounds. We made love, both orally and intercourse, I nibbled her ears, neck and massaged her whole body but when we were both satisfied her husband came over and gave her long deep kisses which soon get me ready to start back in on her! LOL

There are some niche porn vids (mostly Japanese I think) where the entire action is mouth to mouth kissing, usually two females. There is a lot of dancing darting tongues seeking, finding then slipping away and though this is not my thing I think I'd probably prefer it to the same length of video that just showed a cock ramming in and out of a cunt.

What say you? Is kissing the ultimate intimate action?

Recycled profiles
Posted:Aug 12, 2018 8:04 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2018 9:46 am

I've noted many profiles that are going on 10yrs old that have very infrequent visits and no picture updates. I will grant that some people would come around from time to time, pickup messages and maybe check out some new profiles but i have a god 30% of them in my narrow search.

I wonder if the site is triggering them occasionally to keep the member count up
How Obamacare proved that American Politics is beyond hope
Posted:Aug 11, 2018 10:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2018 7:03 pm

So in 2010 the affordable care Act was passed without one republican vote.

After the smoke cleared it was apparent that this was a huge handout to the Insurance industry with the Fed Govt guaranteeing that the Ins companies would be paid for policies that people were forced to buy.

You would think that the republicans would be rubbing their hands like Lon Chaney in a silent movie thinking of ways to bend the rules to let their buddies in the insurance Industry know they were on board.

But no they were so single focused to make it a failure no matter what that they fudged it up in ways that caused premiums to skyrocket instead of doing away with it all together like they would have done if they gave two shits for the constituents . In 2011 I was a federal contractor with no health benefits (some real irony there) I signed the wife and I up for a sliver plan at $200 a month, a burden but bearable. In 2012 I got benefits and in 2015 we lost the contract and I was unemployed for a few months. I thought i'd check on insurance and the same plan was over $600 a month! So the republicans for no better reason than to thwart a democrat plan screwed the people and their buddies in the insurance industry.They managed to make it unpalatable to insurance companies so they left in droves doing away with competition and leaving the consumer butt fucked with no lube.

Obamacare was a bill the democrats wrote that the republicans should have loved but instead destroyed screwing the consumer while leaving the democrats largely blameless in the public eye.

i am no waiting for trump to champion single payer just to watch the dems piss all over it.
I'm getting too old for this shit!
Posted:Aug 11, 2018 4:59 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2018 2:38 pm

But I can't stay away!
No I am not talking about the Passion site but rather Ham radio. As a child of the CB craze days and drawn to electronics at an early age it's no wonder I became a Ham operator and now currently hold the highest class license. Before you all drop to your knees and pledge unending fealty this badge does not carry the distinction that it once did but I won't bore you with the details on this sore subject.

The Ham population, like that of America in general is aging but they are slightly ahead of the curve I am only about 10yrs out from retirement but hear many guys on the air that retired about the time I graduated from High school! The ham population is a little more affluent than the general population also and some spend insane amount of $ on their equipment. There is a contest operator who has probably somewhere around $100,000 in antennas and thrice that in radio gear not 5 miles from my house.

In it's heyday Ham was cutting edge, as recent as the mid-80's there was a nationwide radio web that could relay an email almost anywhere in the country within a day long before the web took hold. Today it is a quaint hobby trying to stay relevant but I still think it's cool as hell to hang a piece of random wire in your yard and with a small radio that can be ran on a car battery talk to Europe, Africa or even Japan.

Any way what I am getting too old for is the tower work that is involved with erecting towers and antennas but like in high end audio the end of the chain is the most crucial so when a good deal comes along I put on my belt drag out my tools and play monkey so today found me at 70' in the air on my tiptoes loosening bolts to drop an antenna in preparation to drop the tower next weekend to take to the farm in Ky.

I had #1 son with me and tried to entice an interest in him for this work because it is lucrative and my experience could give him a big leg up no pun intended. But he's too smart for that crap so poor old dad is still the main monkey.
Russian Collusion and why we are Fucked!
Posted:Aug 10, 2018 5:37 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2018 7:50 pm

So the Russians stuck their nasty little red fingers in the POTUS election of 2016.

The Russians were in contact with both candidates teams before the election but Trumps people either more hungry or competent followed up more consistently.

Some Russian Oligarchs funneled money through shell accounts and posted fake stories on FB and other social media. This is not surprising to me, when I did a research paper on FB in 2010 prior to it going public Forester research reported that the 2nd biggest private investor in FB was a Russian national. Russian money is everywhere trying to buy influence to make up for their fall post USSR breakup.

Trump had some guys in his campaign who had shady dealings with Ukraine before the campaign even started. Mueller has had these investigation rolled into the Russian election tampering investigation which to me is further evidence of how politicized the FBI has become.

Now nearly two and millions of dollars later the press is still beating the drum that Trump was personally involved in this and maybe they will eventually find a smoking gun and Trump will fall. The result will be President Pence who is somewhere to the right of Attila the Hun.

In the meantime has anybody bothered to ask the question, who changed their vote due to Russian interference? With the highly charged campaign in 2016 you had Hillary Clinton who a near majority would not vote for should she be running unopposed and Donald Trump who a near majority voted for just to thumb their nose at the party elites. I don't think that if the Russians swayed every single undecided voter it would have changed the results one way or the other.

This whole thing does give the press and the party power structure from both parties cover to bury their heads in the sand for at least another 4 and ignore the fact that they are screwing the vast majority of the american people either through will inaction or downright self serving bullshit legislation that does nothing outside the beltway.

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